7 Things Not To Do In A Relationship
Clap for yourself if you didn’t think of this one with reference to your spouse only. The term relationship is quite vast. This calls for one happy moment of your human evolution in the 21st century. By relationship, I mean any relationship.
There are so many things we do and let happen to ourselves which just make relationships a burden.
Here are a few things definitely not to do if you want a healthy relationship and hence a healthy self.
1. UNAWARENESS IS A BANE
It’s so important to know the people who mean something to you. Don’t walk into any if you don’t know them for real.
2. DON’T TRY TO TAME THEM
Assigning that role to your someone would be unfair to that person’s existence. It is so important for people to love others for who they are, and not the identity of the position they hold in that relationship for you. If you being a parent, enforce things on your child and make something out of him which he actually isn’t, don’t call it love.
3. REBEL IN LOVE – A Big No
If you are genuinely in a relationship with someone, provided that someone ain’t toxic for you, all you need to do is ACCEPT. Accept them for who they are. This one is incepted from the second tip.
KNOW THEM LIKE YOU KNOW THEM FOR YEARS, LOVE THEM LIKE ITS NEW.
4. DON’T THINK THEY ARE ALREADY YOURS, EVERYDAY!
Just the fact that anything can happen can anyday gives you a sense of realisation. This is actually true. Also anything ‘unattained’ just looks naturally too attractive. KNOW THEM LIKE YOU KNOW THEM FOR YEARS, LOVE THEM LIKE ITS NEW. This one calls for the fifth one.
6. DON’T EXPECT A THING
While you execute all of the above and manage to exist, don’t expect anything in return. Call it a relationship and not a business plan. Also remember you did all this because you seek that person’s existence and company and you love them, and not primarily for their benefit.
7. MAKE NO LINES
There is no harm in just giving and only a fool will call you a fool for that. The beauty of the universe is, it is endless. You can pour love, as much as you want, and it will never exhaust. Trust me, it won’t. There has to be no line for love and joy. I love you too 3 4 5 6 is bullshit. Love is not a qualitative or quantitative formula or destination. Its a state, where you can be, irrespective of the external factors.